Attitude is Key

Optimism is the key to open yourself up to all the better things in life. Positivism is the key to making all your dreams come true. Always be naively optimistic and always have contagiously positive attitude.

A good attitude will make life so much easier. You cannot live a great life if you doubt and think negative. When you think and act positive things, start to happen. Positivity attracts success and all the other better things in life.

Life has a few simple rules. One of them is; ‘what you give is what you get’.

As a model, it is all about attitude. True, but this does not only count for models. In anything, one wants to do they have to have the right attitude. The right attitude is a positive attitude.

If you say that you are going to walk on water, you should believe and have an attitude to go with it. You cannot take that first step thinking; ‘I am going to sink’. That first step should already be followed by the next step. Positive and secure.

Overthinking, worrying and stressing cause the most unhappiness in this life. Do not let silly little things ruin your day nor your life. Did not you notice how many things you worried through your life and most of them did not even came true?

Self-confidence and self-esteem are not fruits that can be picked out of a tree. It is hard, almost impossible to have a positive attitude when you do not have them. As parents, we should cultivate these traits into the younger generation.

It is not easy as a teenager to find his/her place in the world. They are only beginning to understand the world, life and themselves. At that same moment, they have found their place in it all have to manage to fit in.

At moments like this, they need reinsurance that comes from positive attitude so they can build their self-esteem. What they do not need is a negative attitude that ruins self-confidence and promotes hate.

A positive attitude will not only bring success to our lives but also to others. Just imagine a world of self-confident humans. No need to kill or to commit suicide. Imagine the world with humans with high self-esteem and positive attitude. No need for bullies nor terrorists!

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Kati van der Hoeven (Lepistö)
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Kati ”Young achiever of 2014”

The Finnish author, blogger Kati van der Hoeven-Lepistö, is the award-winner ´The Finnish young achiever of the year 2014´. The prize was awarded by the junior division of the Chamber of Commerce International Finland.

Kati van der Hoeven-Lepistö is a 40-year-old former supermodel, whose career was cut short after an afflicted brain stem infarction in 1995. Kati was 20-years-old at that time, Kati lost the power of movement and the power of speech completely. Only her eyes are working, and she communicates with a letter chart.

The grand assemblage of instruments according to van der Hoeven is determination, faith and toughness, these enable her to live a full life. She has helped and encouraged others to cope with being paralyzed and moving forward.

Kati is the author of her life experiences in the book ´Blink of an eye´ (only in Finnish), and she is an active blogger. According to the jury van der Hoeven-Lepistö fosters a positive attitude to life, and she has affected thousands of people’s life and attitude towards life by teaching acceptance of diversity and understanding (spiritual growth).

The Young Achiever is the world’s most prestigious award, the junior division Chamber of Commerce International Finland to share their field and in his own right performing between 18 and 40 years of Finnish citizens. Competition is the national implementation of international ´The Outstanding Young Person Awards.

  • Chola Viray

    true champions thrive despite the odds. we only need desire to get things done